i dreamed that i couldn't get anything done because

I had to spend all my time
showing people where the bathroom was

I am doing a promo change
so maybe
I just knew
everyone was going to irritate the fuck out of me

boy will my arms be tired
and
I'm super stressed
and, maybe
premenstrual
hurray

I feel
weird
and
strangely
like the world might end

my work

the girl who helps me
just sent me a video

it's adorable

sometimes
sometimes i'm all like
crap, i am so far behind
i think i'm gonna have to come in early
she often closes on friday nights

so
a few times she has texted me
it's all set up, you don't need to come in early

i really like those texts

so today
we were talking about the tasting
i was asking her suggestions
for sweet wines
what did she think we had enough of
has to be red, there's a sale on red

when we got it all ironed out
she said she was going to do her best to get it all done

and, i told her

i really like those texts

you really like [thumbs up] them

yes, i do

well, i'll send you a text to let you know i got it all done
and
a picture

she sent me a video
[i'm not gonna learn how to place that here]

[text]
hey e____, this is the wine dept
and this is the set up
i replaced the other red wine that was a syrah
[move in on replacement syrah]
because we didn't have any more of the, uh the one with jaqk [voice raises uncertainly]
yeah, we didn't have anymore of that jaqk stuff
so i replaced it with this
also, trash can and cups are in this door
[move in on open cabinet door]
over here, and that will be closed
[closes door]
[door bounces back open]
[closes door]
also, everything else is set up
you might need more towels
yeah, you don't need to come in early tomorrow--  you're welcome

like in that teenage girl tone
like thankless me

but i think she's using it ironically
because the last thing i said to her was

thank you for all you're hard work

this illustrates my point

cypress, white pine, and now, bamboo sap

i've been having these long complicated dreams
and as i'm waking up
i'm thinking
i got to remember that
but then it's gone, and i can't tell you about it

i went to the mall
and there are these super aggressive cart people
they try to rope you in
and
i don't want to buy their stuff
i mean
i probably do
but i don't
and i don't want them to waste my time

but
it's hard not to engage with them

at one point
this guy is handing me a sample sachet
and i'm saying

no no no

are you using anything on those pimples

he asks about my basically healing cystic acne under my jaw
which probably wouldn't be visible if i could just not pick at it

yes

i can't stop now
i'm on a mission

i'm going to buy skin care
he's selling skin care
but
he is israeli
and
if i let him talk to me
i will end up with a charge i can't afford to pay
and an entire new line of dead sea skin care
which i will love and use happily
but which i do not need
because
i am using a bunch of korean skin care
which i have spent almost a year refining and whittling down
to just the key items
that i am super happy with

but
for some reason
israeli sales people
[at least the ones i've met so far]
have some hypnotic power over me
and the whole sales process
becomes
somehow
sexual


spending a bunch of money
the inevitable
outcome

i bought my first amore pacific item

abstract of of a whirlwind

snatch
a snatch of conversation
whispers
around the edges
memorial of dreams
i try to coax
from random memory

over the top
crawling across
good
to the last
drop

it's the darndest thing

you remember that beer i couldn't get

well
hmmmm
what is the best order to tell this story

i had asked for a sign
i been asking, most days
and i'm sure i get em
but i don't know how to interpret em, apparently

this one either

he comes waltzing in, like 10 minutes before i'm supposed to get off work
and he's all like:
i am exhausted from all the hoops i had to jump through
but i got you a case

we'll see if it shows up tomorrow

and, i mean, realistically
one case is symbolic

but
really
what is that a sign of



you
sound happy
by the way

everybody at work is sick

i cannot get sick
i'm going to bank some extra sleep
if you can join me at the campfire
we can have coffee in the dreaming

if not
i'm not dodging you

love
e.

i slept late

and when i woke up
i both had a headache
and
felt the need to cry, lightly
not hard body wracking sobs
just kind of water leaking from the eyes
but
it has continued throughout the day today

i don't know
somehow
my spelling all that out
made me feel a loss

i don't know
if i didn't want you to know that stuff
or
if i wanted you to know it
and now
admitting to myself
that you probably don't
somehow means
that, again, no one understands me
or
if it's just the poetry is diminished for me, somehow

but
i do feel
that it's somehow related to what i wrote yesterday

i just feel, sad

i'm going to bed

i thought about not telling you
but
i don't know whether that's the right or wrong thing to do now

and
i'm crying again, fuck

I gotta stop naming these "thoughts"

today would have been my grandmother's 96th birthday
or maybe i'm wrong about that
maybe it's
well
plus or minus two years
i can't make the math right for the triangulation facts

i finally got my recorded reading from the astrologer
it wasn't really what i wanted

she spent a lot of time talking about:
when i see x in a natal chart
it means co dependency issues
blah blah blah
when i see these signs
or these houses
in the north and south nodes
and you have both
blah blah blah

boundary issues

REALLY??!!

YA THINK??!!!

come on
don't teach your grandmother to suck eggs
i know from my boundary issues

it made me mad

i've been working on em intense like for
i don't even know
and i'm having weekly visits with my mom, remember

but
she doesn't know that
and i did say:
whatever resonates

so i have absolutely no room to complain
she gave me some book learnin i could work on
and, hell, maybe i should do it
it's not like i'm completely fixed

her point was
that i'm right
there's big stuff coming up in my transits
and, to make the most of them, i really should get fixed

only
it was kinda interesting, what she actually said

we are all made up of electromagnetic energy
and
when we have boundary issues
it tears holes in our energy fields
and then the electromagnetic energy from the transits
it hits us on one side
and just passes right through and out
and we don't get to keep any of the good energy in our field


she also said
that
even though i have capricorn in my chart
because of the degrees [or something]
they are sitting in the house of aquarius
so
i'm just all kinda detached and think-y

plus
i really need to start my own business, apparently
my north node says it is like a destiny thing or something

she didn't spend any real time explaining the things i'd like to have had explained
and a lot, really a lot on the not so much

apparently 2014 is my jupiter return
in the house of babies

and
in the near future
[again no specifics--  a few years]
pluto will be sitting--  right smack on
my mercury
but it's pluto all round for like seventeen years
but
when pluto was on her mercury
she became a writing machine which has never left her
and now she's written a bunch of books she wants to sell me

that's not fair
she gave me a list of resources
only one of which was hers
but then
she gave me hers
which she must have decided to do after she pitched it to me
ostensibly because i was so patient
which i don't think i was, just especially
i just didn't bitch to her


one of my vendors at work
was telling me i couldn't get this one kind of beer
which everybody wants
and it's local
but
i can't get it
and he's all like:  it's not my fault
and i'm like:  i'm not saying it's your fault
i'm saying who ya gotta sleep with to get this damn beer
apparently
send paperwork to the brewery and distributor
NOW for NEXT YEAR
from corporate

well, shit, that might as well be an act of congress

so
i'm all like:
well how bout i just stop carrying all their beers
if i can't get the ones people really want to buy

oh
but that would just be hurting yourself

no, not really
they can buy that anywhere
i can use the space

oh
well
that would hurt me, then
it's not my fault
people are always chewing me out about this

i don't think i am chewing you out especially
but
if you like i can start chewing you out
and then you'd be able to see if you could tell the difference

like, seriously
ever since i got this new guy
every time i see him
i tell him i want this stupid, limited edition beer
that everybody is ape shit crazy for
and he says:   ____ more weeks
this is the first time i'm getting this triplicate paperwork bullshit

and i did not mention that

everything i was saying was directed at the brewery

sheesh

and i know that's bullshit, anyway

i had a fill-in, temporary, sales rep get me two cases of one of the limited edition brews
they have an allocation
and i'm not willing to be nasty enough to get part of his allocation

so
whatever


i mostly feel like i somehow cheated myself
because through however i answered her questions
i gave her room to think that i wanted advice on how to fix my life
when i was trying specifically
not to get advice

i wanted expert information, yes
but, ya know, the kind she was qualified to give me
and i guess i don't really feel like that's what i got

also
she said that my chart was at odds with itself

and i guess i took a little umbrage with that
because i had just decided that it was beautiful
how the different parts
balanced and completed me
without my really needing anything or anybody to give me balance

and what i wanted
was a sense of how that balanced integrated whole
was affected by major upcoming transits
and
that didn't seem to be at all what i got

so
maybe
maybe my mistake was
i didn't paint her a picture
i didn't make her see me and know me
and feel what i wanted and needed from her
so that she could give me what i wanted
i was
withholding
because i didn't want to lead and bias her
and she mistook that for being closed off

i told her i didn't feel good about giving her all this information
and i didn't want advice about my freaky life-style choices
and she
for some reason
took that to mean that
i thought she was judging me
would maybe try to cause problems for me
[she told me my information was safe with her]

but
to be honest
i really don't care
not even a little whether she judges me
i never really care about that
i mean, i don't want to hear a bunch of blah blah judgy-ness
but
ya know
think what ya want

the fact that i don't know what i want to be when i grow up
might mean
that i have boundary issues
so that i can't separate myself from others enough to know what i want
but
i don't think that's how my boundary issues work

i think
my lack of direction professionally
stems from my ambivalence about the things i'd have to do
to do the things i want to do
i think
i always can see just a little too much
about the ugly irritating under-belly
and it stops me from being able to commit myself fully
plus
money
and issues

and besides
what i'm doing right now
that's a job i can do
that lets me earn not really enough money
but i have time to devote to you

i'm kind of a recovering work-a-holic
if i got a good job
there would be no time for you

and
i know you don't think so
but actually
you have been my priority
well, after my boundary preservation, i guess
because
there have been things
that i think
you have wanted me to do
[maybe i'm wrong]
that would have fucked me up, bad
if they didn't go well
and there was absolutely no logical reason to think they would
just from the observable facts

maybe you don't see my perspective
or maybe you just saw what you wanted
or maybe you were a little bit in denial
i may not have all the facts

i have loved you
with a commitment that startles me
fully aware that i may be fabricating the relationship
in whole or in part
and can never really know which

the level of uncertainty
caused me a lot of stress, for years
and, as a consequence, i have periodically questioned my motives
what am i getting out of this
is this a sign of poor self esteem
is this a sign of a larger issue with choosing someone emotionally unavailable
but
i've never really seen you as emotionally unavailable

when i see you as whipped
[which i try really hard not to]
it is a big turn off
but i have seen you as locked in
even before you were locked in
which is why i had to drive away
if i had stayed
and ended up living under a bridge
i would have only have had myself to blame
and i would have lost respect for myself
so i couldn't

and i don't have a lot of money
so i don't have the ability to follow you around the way i did

and
i'm sure you had your reasons
but
you kinda took away the dream
of my being the one
and i didn't really want to follow you around
you hurt me
and you made me mad, really really really mad

and why did i love you anyway
what the fuck was wrong with me

and the answer is
i just love you
i don't love you because of, like reasons
i just love you
but
i don't completely trust you
and
i know you love me
i just know that
but
i'm not sure why
why you need me
or what you need me for

and
i'm not sure how long
i planned to keep my life open, hanging
while i figure it all out
you being part of it

if i felt really called to something big
would i have faded away into the woodwork
i honestly don't know how to answer that

you
you are the big thing i felt called to
and i have poured myself into you like you were a calling from god
which is kinda how i have felt about it

but
i don't know what god ultimately wants
maybe
maybe i helped you get back on track
or
maybe i inspired you
and maybe that is all i was supposed to do, ya know
if that's the case
i have to be okay with that
that's the deal i made with god when i was a little girl

contrariwise
maybe
maybe this is a journey for me
maybe i have imagined you from the beginning
maybe this whole thing is to lead me to what i'm supposed to do
[i don't actually believe that i've imagined you
or our relationship to one another
but if that's the case
i have to deal with it and complete the mission]

and if it turns out that i'm crazy
then
i'm a failure
but not before that
because this is a process
this part of my life
where i become
i don't know what yet

but
oh dear god, yes
there is escapism
rampant through this whole, whatever it is i'm doing
but
it is creative escapism
is is not from thanatos



william shatner
[stay with me, this is not as random as it seems]
i listened to one of his books on a long road trip
he talked about how
he has never had a plan
except to leave himself open to things, basically
and
that, if he had a plan, he really would never have done
any of the things that have made his career
but
since he was open to whatever
he's had some good adventures

and that is what i'm doing
although
i didn't have that as a plan
i guess i do now

i have stuff i need
and
some of it isn't negotiable
but
i'm responsible to me for that
and i have boundaries
and
you may not have liked them
but
you had
at every point along the way
the ability to change the equation
so
if it hasn't been exactly the ride you've wanted
there's that whole tango-ing business


just do me a favor
if
if you at any point
did anything
to punish me
[and i'm not saying you did]

think
think really hard
if that's the kind of thing
that you can promise yourself
that you will never do again
and, if you can promise that, then lie to me about it

because
i never ever want to be with someone who would punish me
i've done that, i think
and
it's a boundary, going forward

that is the one thing
the thing i thought
that i couldn't think
about you
and
i don't believe it
but
it pulls, a little, sometimes
does that make any kind of sense to you


am i done with this entry

what is he gonna think of all that

am i capable of having a mature relationship

should i be concerned that it chose the cat people tarot to answer that question

is there anything you want to tell me in conclusion


last night
i dreamed about snow
and car chases
and stuff i don't remember
and
a santa suit

i have no idea


should i even post this at all

i love you

i've been getting 9 of wands
quite a bit, lately
and
that is a card that seems to vary quite a bit
from deck to deck
it has
kind of a girding of the loins
before battle
vibe
but
in some decks
there is a
those who are about to die salute you vibe
and in some
it is more about the courage before
what might very well be
ya know
henry the fifth-ish

so then
i have this deck
i think i mentioned
or maybe i just meant to
is hard to read
but
for some reason i was called to read with it anyway
and i asked:
what will be different
the next time i see him
because
there has been a certain element of
painful consistency

and
that's not completely fair, maybe
but
this is in my head, ya know
so, anyway
i got this card
which i wasn't sure quite how to interpret at first
but
i have decided now
how i am going to interpret it, anyway
but
then i realized that it is the 9 of wands, too

and that just
made me
wonder

how to interpret the larger pattern

anyway
no matter what it all ultimately means
i love you

thoughts

in the same way
that you change tarot cards over time
i do too, except
mine tend to change
based on the question
or your feelings
or whatever
mostly

but
right now, mostly
i am showing up as the high priestess

although
either today
or yesterday
i actually got
the high priestess, the star, and the empress
as well as the frog mother card
although
i'm not saying that they all represented me
i just thought it was odd
or cool
or both

happy happy blood time

BLAST FURNACE

i keep trying to think of things to tell you today
and i'm not having trouble
trying to think of them
they're tumbling out
smothering each other

but the one that chews it's way to the top is
BLAST FURNACE

it really wasn't that hot today

90 said my phone
real feel 93
nothing

but
you'd go outside
and it was like the surface of the sun

and
i had no traffic
zip, zap i'm there
i stopped, got gas, drove pointlessly around
filling the time with driving that was supposed to be drive time
until, finally, i said
this is stupid, i said

i parked, windows down
i'll just wait
i use the google
i look up the weather where you are
where i think, you are
i do that, sometimes
i got a whole list on my phone
plus
some places i want to go
and
taipei

taipei was pre programmed
and by the time i got around to deleting it
i realized
it's almost always raining
in taipei
when
my phone, gives me
the weather
it plays it out for me
so i get

raindrops and lightning and thunder

taipei stays

and it's still hurricane season
tracking the gulf
but there's been a little fall, just a little
this has been a mild season
nothing at all to complain about
and complain'n well that never does any good anyway
summer didn't even start till may

but today
i was sitting in the car
actually kind of enjoying sweating
i mean, seriously pouring sweat, maybe it will dislodge blocked pores

no
it's getting creepy obsessive with the skin
i closed the window
and sat there with the air conditioner running

i can't remember what i thought

that's weird, right

it wasn't just me, the heat
everybody noticed it

have you been out there

in the night kitchen

when i was a kid
my dad used to tell me:

i almost choked to death last night eating cheese and peanut butter

seriously, like a lot


so
for some reason
[not doing myself a mischief]
i just realized, the other night
i have no idea why that would be a desirable thing
it always sounded disgusting
but
i never liked peanut butter
but
now
no stranger to the night kitchen myself apparently
was about to eat a spoon of peanut butter

ok
possibly more than one spoon

when that thought entered my mind
i had cheese
i had tillamook cheddar
and i thought, hmmmmmmm
still doesn't sound good

but
this was
apparently
something my father was willing to rick his life for
regularly

and suddenly i had to know

this was jif
i don't know what my father ate
i vaguely think skippy

the peanut butter
totally drowns out the taste of the cheese

i tried a tiny bit of peanut butter
it still drowned it out

the texture
was good
something in the pleasure level of say
new york cheese cake

but
how much, at a time
must he have needed
to almost choke

and, of course, meta chimes in
why
did he feel the need to tell you about it

i'm in a weird mood

maybe it's pms
but i'm not sure
i'm off cycle again, i think
maybe
it's trying to re calibrate
so that it'll be at the right place at the right time
or
maybe not

maybe i'm just a little late
but
there's a desperate angst
that has no real source

i'm trying to decide between going out and trying to have an adventure
or
staying in and trying to have an inner journey

i tweaked my back a little sleeping
it's just like a back rib attachment or something
i've been trying to stretch it
and it's better
but
maybe it would be easier to fix
if it were like a pop-able situation

i wish
there was some big insight coming
i paid money to get my chart done
and i'm kind of regretting it
i haven't got it yet

but she asked these questions
which i answered, vaguely
unconventionally
and then
in the notes
i felt compelled to add:

i feel weird about telling you all this stuff.  i don't want personal advice on how to handle my freaky life-style choices.  i feel like my life is about to  shift somehow, but i don't know how.  maybe i'm still just having a mid-life crisis or maybe there's something cosmic going on.  i want to know which way the wind is blowing, if that makes sense. am i in a saturn return? is there some area i should be working on?  what resonates for me?  and i'm not sure what period of time we will be talking about here.  i just felt like i was supposed to get a reading from you at this particular point in time.  does that make sense?

because it's been like a month
of email and waiting
and
blah blah blah
and
i no longer feel like it was a good idea
but it did seem like something i was supposed to do
at the time

i was talking to the guy who said before i'm like yoda
about jehovah witnesses
and
in the course of door to door missionaries
i brought up mormons

but
i told him
i think the function
within the organization is totally different
of the mission, i mean

mormons have a brief period of mission
between high school and college
and it is my belief
that this serves
more to cement them
get the desire to question
out of their heads
so that
when they rejoin mormon society
they are cleared to move up the chain
and learn whatever all those
levels of secrets are

also
that it has an
us against them
effect

kinda like
[i'm not implying an us against them mentality in pesach]
how
at pesach you are supposed to experience "i was a slave in egypt"

the mission
psychologically reinterprets
and the end of the mission reenacts
the symbolic journey to the great salt lake

and
i didn't go into that much depth
but
it didn't seem all that complicated or deep

but
he said:
wow, you really think about the psychology of things


which, i guess, means that other people don't


so
i guess
we'll see

sometimes
when i'm all cryptic and not up
i feel like it's better for me not to talk to you
because
i believe you have certain things you need from me
and i try very hard to give them to you
and
i don't really feel like this is what you want/need

maybe i'm wrong

red edelweiss 1975

i smoked, a little
then i walked across the room, kitchen to bathroom
while in transit
this alien beam, or something
when i sit down i'm humming edelweiss

what is that about
what is edelweiss to me

when my mom used to pick me up for thursday visits
we would go to memorial city mall
we'd eat at the york steak house
we'd shop around
we'd end up at haus edelweiss more often than not
the place had cuckoo clocks
i had kinda a thing for clocks

[i never really realized that before just this moment] 

but the song
that's about the music box

[now this is not the maltese falcon it's just a jewelry box
but it was amazing]

i wanted this thing, so much
it was a regular girls jewelry box
you open it and the ballerina dances

but instead of my little girl one
which was cardboard
pink satin lined
white tulle tutu-ed dancer
lost forever in a pirouette
to the tune swan lake

this one was larger
rounded
red
leather
velvet interior
white satin evening gown
slowly twirling
to edelweiss

i had asked for a sign

at work
everyone was buying wine for weddings
well, not everyone
but
two groups
all the outside vendors showed up early
or on time, which rarely ever happens
the girl who helps me
was actually scheduled to work
and
the one who just got certified
wanted to learn the ropes
so
I had help
and I was feeling pretty good
although
I wasn't quite sure what the message was

when I got home
I was kinda super pissed
by the facillities clusterfuck
but
lots of physical activity
calmed me right down
probably want to remember that

i had this thought today

i'm not sure if it had significance
from like my perspective
but then
meta
or whatever takes a double

you remember the picture of me
dance recital
chest out
arms wide
looking more like a merman [ethel] than waif

well
that dance recital was the day my brother was born
and my father was there
which
i gotta say
probably did not help my relationship with my stepmother

so i though about
what that meant
and, i mean, it was different times
he wasn't going to be at the birth

but he got to skip out on the labour
or had to sacrifice a precious moment with his wife
his beloved
the mother of his child
in order to be there for me

and
i'd never seen it quite that way before

this was the second time she was racing down the street pushing me, office chair mach 5

i couldn't write it down
i'd forget before i got halfway through
i grabbed my phone
and it has a note taking device
i just discovered recently
and have only used to give myself ironic pep talks
so far

i recorded the important points:

there were two couples
sort of
or really
maybe not
maybe there was one
maybe there weren't any

but there were trying to be

and
the characters were:

a not as young as she used to be, slightly diva-esque
new age media icon
well known in circles

a mid-thirties up and coming self-help guru
not especially tall, slightly balding, kinda scruffy bearded charismatic
whose countenance fairly glows genuine

and

the girls
i don't know what the girls do
one is in her later twenties, 26 or 27
the other is maybe 23 or 24

the younger one
is in love with the older one
who is her friend, but doesn't really believe it's mutual

the older one isn't really
that into definitions of things
and
really
is maybe open to anything

the guru has been trying to melt the new age ice queen for a while now
she worked with him on a project
and she is trying to parlay that into a mainstream jump

the kid has been
flirting with her friend for a while
and it seemed like it might have been working

and then
she and the guru

click

it was the strangest thing

it's like i just had the core of a novel
handed to me in my dream
but
i don't know if i know and understand
the characters
well enough
to write their stories
and
i guess that's happened before
but still
kinda weird

hope i didn't upset you somehow

i dreamed about
a really beautiful
and cool
girl
who was telling me
how she
got it
that i didn't have time for her

and
it wasn't that i didn't have time
for quantum entanglement
i just
couldn't enjoy that
simultaneously with being
stressed and pissed off
and
i couldn't stop that, ya know

i love you
and today is gonna be
if anything
worse

but
after 12 or 1 or 2
whenever i can leave
i should be completely free
until 8am friday

either you are all about me today

or i have a serious
neurological problem
because i'm working ungodly hours
and
i'm angry at my corporate overlord
but
i keep thinking:
if this keeps up
i might not be able to function

hit me up after 1:30
and
i'm probably going to bed at 3:00

i love you
my little ghost pepper

oh yeah

so, hotness
you've known me a while now
what do you think
what do you think i should be
when i grow up
i value your opinion

where do you think
my true talents lay

i know it seems like i might not be serious
but
i really am, serious

it was a small town, possibly mexico

we all knew him, somehow

i need a house for my non-conventional wives

later i met them
and they were pretty non-conventional
one had a little girl
i'm almost certain they were lovers
and they did bring some excitement
to our little town
i became friends with them

you understand
non-conventional
he smiled broadly

then i was organizing coffee
and sandwiches
and reading material
for, something
adam was there
giving commentary
not sure why
or how i should take that

then
there were fish tanks
i was feeding the fish
they bad been neglected
i was afraid the fish were not ok
some of them weren't, but most were
but some
seemed to be flying through the air

that's an old theme
i haven't had it in a while
don't know what it means
but
it means something

there was more
my brother was there
only it wasn't my actual brother
and there was a lot more
i can't remember
with the books
that was important
i just can't remember
books
industrial drip coffee machines
and
fish

words cannot express

earth

i think i was young
maybe early twenties
i travelled
with my family to a foreign country
might be mexico

we were either
buying
or selling
an estate, i guess

and there was some sort of magic
involved, i guess
because
there was this ritual
or ritual-like
scene
where we were digging through the dirt
and
a stack of famous rocks and minerals
beautiful hand-sized specimens

we took them away in boxes of soil
symbolically
carrying the land away with us


and then
i was in my grandmother's kitchen

crazy, unrestful dreams

it was some sort of reunion
there were people i knew
from work
from school
from television too, i think
i feel pretty sure i saw sam merlotte

i wanted to talk to fred (this girl who used to work for me)
and i kind of did
but then she ran up to the front of the room
and wrote on the wall

i want to live in a digital world
with analog sex

and drew this picture
that when she walked away
was gone

it was streaming, or something, too
stuff was on my phone
and i went to a screen on the wall
and synced with it

you have been to blah blah blah event
now
are you ready go order you christmas tree
one of the options was
not now i'm tired

fred had a long hyphenated name
i wanted to ask her if she got remarried

i thought to myself
she must have married the daddy
by which i did not mean
like the baby daddy

when she was in high school
she was a foreign exchange student
she went to france
and
she lost her virginity to the french daddy
this kind of horrified me
naive, i am, i guess

i mean, on the one hand
it was probably
good technique
not a horrifying first experience
that you spend the rest of your life trying to forget
but
on the other hand
it seems like
when you send your young daughter
to stay with a family
you should be able go expect
part of the protection to include
not, you know, personally deflowering her

but
whatever

woke up with a headache
yuck

i have to go to sleep now

i wish i could stay up

but
i
am
falling asleep

ok, so this is a little synchronastic

watch this with your mob of wallabies

i dreamed about australia

lake

chef sang yoon

was making soup

there were motorcycles

and
mogul type bigwigs
and
you were very excited
at the connections you were making
with the moguls
i think i was just gathering information
not even intel
just research, i think
but
it seemed like it was important

i haven't been able to remember my dreams, but i feel kinda schizophrenic

does that make any sense
i mean
i thought i kinda felt that way before
but
for some reason
i am stressed out, kinda bitchy
and
late, everywhere

i'm trying to do a detox
and i can't seem to get a good rhythm going

i'm not sleeping enough
and i'm not sleeping well

the one thing that's working for me
is lemon water, i can't get enough of it

but i have less control than i'd like over
what i eat
i want food that tastes good
comfort food
like sushi
and
delivery
chinese tofu homestyle

i don't want to cook

i want to write

but then
i get caught up
in looping interplays of story line

the things i don't understand
the things i think are one way
and then the other

the things i kind of thought i enjoyed
that now i can't stand

i know this isn't making any sense
but
i have to write something
or i'm going to die
and
i can't start
i don't know a metaphor for what i'm feeling

i don't even feel like what i'm feeling is contained within my body

and i'm not sure if that's good
i love you
and everything i start to say
sounds like it means something, different

like i start to say:
meet me in dreamland tonight
let's set free the bears

which i mean in a very extended metaphor-y john irving way
i stop
and think, both
that there are ways you might interpret that, wrongly
and
how wrong it is that i seem to be too a.d.d. to read
for a long dry spell
there is irving that i should have read
which i have failed to read
and
both of those things make me anxious

do you ever feel that way

my fantasies of you are kind of blossoming tonight

there's pictures

flashing across your stomach

across your back

as you sit

or walk

or lay

shirtless

there's venturing out

across the ice

out from the cabin in the woods

maybe you've gained a little weight through the winter

but there's a smell of warming in the air

so crisp it cleans you

and i want you like the smell of the sun in the laundry

i had a crappy day

i hope yours was better

hello

i've been feeling you all day


come visit in dreamland tonight

i'll be waiting by the campfire

since i can't write coherently

i spent a lot of time today
thinking
about whether i ever stopped having my mid life crisis
and i'm not sure i ever did

in some ways
i feel
like i've grown a lot
but it certainly isn't the way most people measure it

even as far back as
when i was going to go away to college
there was this one thing i kept coming back to
the places i liked
didn't give grades

at start of term
they had a contract
what i want to achieve

i felt instinctively
that that would be so much better for me
i felt like i would modify myself, always, for the grade
the making of the plan
freeing me up
to go beyond somehow

i'm sure i could have told you much more clearly then

but
i think
my sense about myself was right
i have to really fight myself back, sometimes
from going for steps up the ladder
even if what is at the top is not something i want

and don't freak out
i'm still drinking coffee

but i was recounting stories to my mom
and i realized i'd never told her before
and that i'd forgotten them
and then i realized
i may not have told you
a critical facet of my personality

i have this inner union organizer
talking about what i won't do

kind of an extension of how i introduced myself to you
for years
about what not to expect me to be

i'm both very very
whatever it is i am, nice, is that what i am
i don't even think that's right
but
people like me
i work and play well with others
and
stubborn
and, apparently a little more particular

on my last adventure
i found some oaxacan creatures
there was a coyote that i thought i should probably get
the trickster has been a totem
and i never had a proper totem for him

i didn't buy him
i kept getting called by a largish purple camel
which i also didn't buy
because he was too expensive
why i was so drawn to him
what did purple
or camels
have to do with me

sleigh/sled


i just figured that out



pretend
you're me

maybe what i should do is tell you how i have answered the question

i don't remember the first reaction
it just didn't really register at first

then
then i thought maybe
it was a
if we're still together at x time...

then
then i thought maybe
she was pregnant
and either
threatening not to be
or
somehow needing it
in other words
maybe
noble

i liked this answer
though it hurt
it gave you
a reasonably good reason to be giving up
a negotiation point
that you'd held onto
for many years

then
then i thought maybe
maybe she was crushing you
nagging and looking in corners for the absence of dust
and you just thought it would be easier
easier all around
if you gave her security:

i love you baby
so much, in fact, that let's get hitched

or
that she threatened to leave you

that you weren't sure about me
what you thought about us or me or you and me
that you didn't want to be alone
or
you didn't want to be without her specifically
that she was the one you couldn't let get away

that i was, mostly, important for creative juices
flowing, and whatnot
something you didn't want to loose
but not something you needed--
you're plenty creative

fires to be put out

if it's meant to be...

that's consistent with usness
you could still use the loss
honor me


but
through the depression
i found
the only answer that really worked

he did it because he wanted to

he's a grown man

i just don't know why

i have questions

but
not reading questions

thoughts, ideas, questions

in search of a metaphor

i almost forgot

i had a strange dream last night

i can't really remember it

there was a car
we were traveling in it
and there were clothes
and blankets
everywhere
night swimming in a sea of cloth

and there was
cake
a giant ruffly confection
which you shaped
square to round
with some fancy hand gestures
and the wink of an eye
presto

and
there was
sad to say
i stepped in some shit
and
there was a whole comedy of errors
about that

you know what they say about me

i'm not sure i know, though

i can live apart from you, if i have to

that's established, i guess
but
i hope
it is also established
that i can't live without you
and
that thing i said
about being able to
completely manufacture you
unless i'm doing that these days
is completely wrong now
though
i thought i could
since i did ten years ago

as much as it hurt me
when you did that thing
if i coulda lived without you
i woulda done it then

i keep getting this weird feeling

and i don't know
if it's just
paranoia
or
what

but
i keep feeling like
maybe

i've upset you
or disappointed you, somehow

and
if so
i'm sorry, really sorry

maybe i coulda done better

i feel like
this is going to work itself out

i don't know how
but
i assure you
if i did know how
i woulda done did it

i'm thinking about you

i love you
and
i really hope
that
with everything
all the craziness
that
i have been
mostly
whatever you needed
that
you're better off
for knowing me
sometimes
i worry
that
sometimes
i'm a distraction
or
too big of an influence
but
hopefully
not


probably just
a mood
it's happy happy blood time

i love you and i hope i see you in my dreams tonight

we could talk
or
we could not talk
just lay some knowledge on me
mind meld style

what does it all look like
from the inside
out

debbie heather in leather...

i was in a room
with you
and debbie heather
and
a toddler
yours, for sure
not mine, i think
an adorable little boy
i was playing with him

debbie heather was modeling a leather dress for you
she was going to her high school reunion
and clearly
she wanted to spend some time with you before she went

she turned to me:
i don't guess i could get you to leave us alone

no, i will, i say

and i turn
going to catch the bus
which has just started to pull away from the bus stop

there is some kind of magical action
tiger jumping
swishing tail
and then
i run
i jump
i grab the bus
and hang mid-air
while the bus drives a few blocks down the street
my dress hiked up around my ass
until the bus stops and i get on board
everyone claps

then we are fooling around
and not fooling around about it
i can't remember the specifics
but
hot, seriously
not, though, intercourse
and i had come many many times
when
finally
you pushed into me

and i was like:
oh god yes, finally

but then
you didn't start to move in me
you just filled me

and
my first thought was:  noooooooo
but then
my next thought was: yeeeeeessssss

and then
we worked together, somehow
and
whenever we were alone
i would touch you
and kiss you on the back of your neck
which was leathered from years of desert life

and i was so proud of myself
because
no one could tell

i was
controlled

debbie heather in leather, tiger tail, and a whole lotta shakin goin on

I'll have to write this later
when I get a second
but
I just want to assure you
the fact that Debbie heather is in leather
in no way indicates
that I did
or
in any way
have a desire to
it's just pertinent to the story
I've never been attracted to her
but
I talked to her in the dream

redux

i can't remember most of them
but
i do remember
night before last
i dreamed i had a friend
and she thought she was gonna help me out
or something
so
when i went to sleep
she gave me breast implants

now
A) i don't want breast implants
[like
if i had a double mastectomy
i would not get them]
B) i don't want my breasts bigger
[like seriously
i would kinda like them smaller
but
i would never have them reduced
because
hello
both surgery
and
they fucking remove your nipples
and slap them back on
and then
like maybe
you can feel them
maybe]
C) they hadn't made a small incision
they had cut across my breasts
horizontally
about an inch below the nipples
and sewed them back up
kinda frankenhooker

i found this really upsetting

they aren't really bigger
she pointed out
i guess she was a surgeon
they are just shaped better
and i used saline

holy crap
you used saline
that shit sloshes
if you're gonna disfigure me
can't you at least make me firmer

and
it didn't look like it was gonna heal that well

it was a terrible dream

and
i guess the shoes i've been wearing are slightly flatter
or something
because i've been waking up with leg cramps
and
frankenhooker night
was thigh night

please
when you get to dreamland tonight
please come see me
or
send happy dreams my way

this sucks
and i hate it

i love you, papi

the magician card

at different times
there will be a card
that will just keep popping up
the emperor
was telling me something
i didn't want to believe a while back
the tower seemed to be
chasing me
at another time
well
lately
it's the magician
and
i think
the magician is you
the new card that represents you
the way the emperor did
and
i think
that's a powerful sign
of something
but
not sure exactly what yet
thought you should know though

dessert

last night
i don't know if it's just because i'm detoxing
but
i dreamed about dessert

i was at some festival
and
every booth i stopped at
had dessert
in fact
i think
maybe there was a new one that might not exist
kind of a reconstruction of apple pie

the center
not chunks of apple
but clear golden gelee
on some kind of crumble crust

like something the sushi bar might create


and today
all day
i wanted you

so badly

intimacy

i guess
is part of what the birth fantasy is about

i feel this strength, this certainty
that i can actually do this thing i've always feared
and
not just feared
it disgusted me
the idea
the very idea of childbirth

i never had some rosy beautiful womyn-image of it

as soon as i saw the pictures of the afterbirth at eleven
that was something
wrong

the movies in college
just confirmed
that it hurt

but
now
i have this certainty
that it is a physical feat
that it can be done
that i can do it

even
if maybe
i can't, or won't get to

but
to do it in a hospital
to have my power taken away

to have you there
it imbues you
with qualities
i have never had in a partner
or maybe even in anyone
and

maybe you are like that
strong
able to believe
and
maybe
that's a little what we do for on another anyway, ya know

but this
this is hardcore
this is the kind of belief in each other
that creates something from nothing, understand

but
on a whole other level

i have had a bunch of ideas

for things to write
telling about my day to day
and
i've started a detox
and i've got some negative stuff coming up

i want to decide
what shakes out

metaphor-wise

cause i can go a buncha ways with this

hope you're tearing it up
or whatever

i love you tigger

birth of the puppyfish

should we do it under water
i'm asking
because it makes a certain amount of sense
but
it isn't necessary from my point of view

what is necessary
is
you

are you up for that

because the way i've got it pictured
[and, full disclosure
this was influenced by things i read
from raw home birthing]
i build this nesting environment
[it's some kinda chick instinct]
then
it's feeling like it's time

so

we make love

[i swear to god]
this works some kind of magic
because your seed is magic prostaglandins

then
or maybe during
you have a little nip of colostrum
healing
vitality building

and then
we bring him into the world, together

i don't want a hospital
hell
i don't want a doula

i want you

could you handle that

i don't want to go to work today

today
i want to spend the day
in bed with you

i love you very much

lawn & order

i can't help myself
i imagine
our life
warm washes of color and pattern
not focused
more like tuning in a pattern
more like underpainting
and that imagining
interferes
impinges
confuses
replaces
my life

it frightens me

lately
i imagine this place
like the tiniest little house
it's too small i say
two people cannot live in that place

but the strange thing is, when i imagine you
you never take up space

not like
the bed isn't big enough
or there isn't a chair

like
there doesn't need to be privacy space
like
your never in the way

and
i mean
surely, i cannot be that naive

regardless, i imagine this little place
with this really awesome yard
and, the thing the places we live have in common
is this kinda indoor outdoor vibe, right
so, there
all the space you need

but, i mean before i got the inside furnished
i got this standing outdoor brunch gig scheduled till perdition

and i'm all like:
wtf

and right back i'm like:
if you live in that house you got to do that

wtf, your fantasies are too much work

i have a bunch of thoughts

but i've had a bad headache all day
and it's muddling me

i wanted to straight up write you all these days
and
i'm feeling
kind of inspired
but
i can't pull it off tonight

i love you, am thinking of you

but right now
i'm thinking about the pavillion for japanese art
if we actually went there
walked around the galleries
went to the snack bar
talked about the rain with the older than me gay male couple
sipped coffee in the beautiful drizzle

would it have been just like that
how
..........zen
...................are
............................you

it's thursday

the giant visual metaphor bubble
maybe you know what i'm talking about
it's a thing that i do
where what i'm doing and seeing and experiencing
becomes experientially narrative, see

anyway
what i'm trying to say
is that it doesn't always work to my advantage
menstrual blood is, like, the fucking red sea
and i hate it
but
i swear to god
right now
right
now
i could do one of those wemoon festival

no
now wait
that's outta control
and you can't be telling him stuff like that
men are afraid of all that menstrual crap
and you're gonna look crazy
or not sexy or whatever, but not good
not what he wants to hear

the menstrual cycle + werewolf mythos =
something interesting there

re: devouring you
consuming subsuming you within my body
animalistic fantasy without words

you do that too, right

suck whatever you're doing up into the fantasy
sort of a ritual embodiment
of the thing you're doing
sort of an investment of meaning
but sort of just a fantasy too
and maybe the edge of that is ticklish or hot
or maybe it's a blanket i wrap around myself

whatever

the ghost of the tilt-a-whirl

remember, can you
the sparkling desert carnival
where the evening stars bloomed in the sky
like the cactus
after the rain

we walked together, sharing a beer
with the cool of the evening rubbing against us
begging the question
of friction

then
hands clasp
we ran across the dryness
scattering integument
until we reached the naked truth

plunging into and through one another

secret oasis

stay with me in the desert tonight, my body a nest of stars
and show me
nodes

i trace the letters of the name of another woman across your chest
above your heart
and i say:

who is she
the woman you gave your heart to
i want to know
i can handle it
but
you shake your head tapping the other side

as i press ear and cheek to you
i sink
into the sound of the sea

mrs. potter's lullaby

i heard it today
it's on the spool at work
i hear it every day, but i heard it today

and tonight
tonight i want you

hey, is this gross

i've been using this "peeling" exfoliant
and i love it
it feels awesome
and
i really want you
to rub that all over my back
partially because i can't reach
but
partially
because i just think it would feel really good

but
it might be gross to you
because the skin just peels away
and maybe you aren't cool
with that whole monkey grooming thing

and
i'd probably need to shower after
and then
i'd want you to soap my back

transmogrification

the other day
i took a bath
mostly i shower
but my back was aching

i had a cup of coffee
but what you may not know about me
is that i don't have a big cadre of cups just hanging out
and then i pick the mug by mood
i have, sorry, had
this big
pink
mug

it's size and proportion comfortable
it's material [thick porcelain] perfect in texture and heft
i bought it in a whole foods
like
maybe ten years ago

anyway
you probably saw this coming, but
i broke it

so yesterday
i went a couple places, looking for a new mug
the potter who made the first one
seems to have vanished
the guild of potters
disbanded

then i went to this little shop in the village

and i saw these beads
they are green plastic faux cinnabar
i mean they like glowed
but i didn't see china
i saw jaguar jade
mayan priestess necklace

i guess i was inspired

i've got to find some spacer beads
and
i need
because it came to me in a flash
one of those gold plated pre colombian frog pendants
like you could by in every museum gift shop world wide in the seventies

you had a wife and 4 kids

there was a bunch of dream
and i can't remember all of it

i was working with you
and a group of others
and
i was giddy
with the nearness of you
the project
which might have been a film
was going really well

then
your wife showed up to take you to the hospital
she had your two little girls with her
and when i asked them
[the girls]
where you were going
she said
you were going to pick up the babies
apparently
one was just in from
boston or philly
and the other from pakistan

what are you, brad pitt

i am very confused
why would you send me this dream

flying fishes

it was very complicated
there was soup
and there were magic capsules
and then
there were the bajillion pills distributed by the flying fish

i think the purpose was to elevate humanity in some way
we had to keep flying around the world
both for information
and to defeat those who wanted to stop us

it was too involved for me to remember all of it
but the flying fish
they were cartoon-ish
they sort of looked like the power puff girls
with their fins balled up like fists

i had twins, a boy and a girl

it was long crazy dreaming
there was a war on, or something
and i was trying to protect my babies
who were tiny
eight or ten inches long
and, pretty uniformly black
not even like African American black
but like the clothes i wear
black
and i was a little sad
because i didn't think you could be the father
and periodically
they would change into kittens

and
they came and told me
i did the inventory
completely wrong

olfactory

you know i've been on this skin care thing awhile
and
i've really been wanting to tell you
but
i keep thinking it's probably boring

so two three weeks ago now
i went to the face shop
i needed an emulsion
and i had this kind of fantasy in my head
they have a line called white tree snow
but i had just come off inventory
and i had bad braaaaaaains

so i had to wander

the face shop had the same girl who helped me before
she's attractive to me i guess
she's pretty i guess
and she could be cute if she wanted to be
but she doesn't
she wants to be serious
she is polite
almost perfect in that she greets you, makes you feel welcome
then leaves you completely alone
but
is ready to answer any question
or discuss her experience with the products
and when i finally left over two hours later
apologizing for taking up so much of her time, said:

not at all
i got my big shipment i've been expecting
and i got it all put away
and i feel like you were part of the process
besides
it's good to take your time
when you're deciding what to put on your skin

so i tried a bunch of foam cleansers
and i didn't like the white tree snow
i think the whole line is for young young women
but
i really liked the e'thym O2 cleanser
and
the mung bean cleanser
which was too cheap for me to feel safe putting it on my face

and the emulsion that i ended up getting was flebote crystal whitening
which i don't so much like the smell of
but
it just gave that sort of yes when it touched my skin

also
i got kelp sheet masks
but that's like a whole nother post

so that was in contrast to the place that sells the sooryehan

i went to the asian grocery i love
cause i needed toasted sesame oil and whatnot
so i'm trying to walk past the sooryehan store
but they're having a gift set sale
so i slowed down to look

and the old woman who works there
she spots me
you need something lighter for the summer
that was true
that had motivated my emulsion shopping
so
she pulls me in

she remembers isa knox
and she shows me something
more moisture
summer dries your skin

yes it was moist
but
i walk over to the hyo
i want this
do you have a set with this

she turns to the young girl
she's go good
she knows

she turns to me:
this most popular in korea

so i was trying not to spend money
and i ended up with something i wanted
plus samples of the rest of the line

and
finally
here is the olfactory

after i wash my face
i tap the toner sample onto my hand
and it smells
amazing

like
floating through an atmosphere
where my molecules are permeable to

i can't even say

flower
rain
mana

and
not just the scent
physical sensation as scentual experience

i smell that
until the wave passes
and then
i put the on the serum and emulsion and eye gel cream
and press my hands into my face

[and the thing is
i've been using this baby collagen serum
and i felt like it was working
but
this stuff
a.) i don't care if it works it feels great
b.) seems to make my skin feel younger]

when the scent begins to evanesce

i pat on the flebote
which has this strong floral scent
which is slightly jarring
but when the emulsion sinks in
it's like i can feel the resveratrol
or

it holds my face in warm embrace

chat

1) co sleeping and Oedipal issues
2) nasal orgasm [as derived from scent]
3) what makes a male a man [verses masculine]
4) how did platonic come to mean sexless
5) that thing you know i want to know

bird of paradise

there's this way we
sleep
the points of connection
the ever so slight
nuanced snuggle
extrapolates
gesturally

the length of your arm across me as we sleep

award winning essay found

i had a lot of dreams
can't remember most of them
but
in one
there was some official something
a foundation or something
they were giving a presentation
and they thought i might want to see
this
and this was a printed copy of an essay
which i had submitted to them
when i was much much younger
and it was now being awarded something
and touted around
i was amazed
somewhat pleased
and totally preoccupied
with a baby
i think, also from the past
intense

there was something ceremonial

there was a long table
and the president
[of something]
was standing in front of it
i was walking along the length of it
some kind of ceremony

also
there was a speaker
at a college auditorium
i watched him from one side
walked through
watched him from the other side
i held him in reverence
but
by the end of the speech
i was in his light
he could see me
the audience could see me
and
that was somehow right

someone
[interviewer maybe]
was talking with the queen
asking her why she wore girdles
why she didn't just
show herself in all her glory
but
she started telling a story
about her son she lost in the 70s
and
the skin
all along the jaw
of the prince consort
was peeling away in ribbons

early for the next three days

promo change
so
weird brain
time change
for the next bit
maybe

maybe
it'll be good for me

and

p.s. i love you

there was only one really interesting thing in my dream

i was at a college
[possibly attending
possibly not]
there was this painter
he looked like somebody
but i just can't place who
i found him fascinating
and i was watching him paint

he was painting this popular girl
a beautiful girl
but
when he finished
he had painted her in a mask
ski mask
luchadora

getting up very early

gonna try
to write dreams
thinking about you darlin
you are my shining star
burn bright

weird little thoughts

i had this weird little day dream today

i was in the kitchen
and i told my daughter
to make that dish she's so good at
so we can have some on hand

it get's her every time

i imagine it now
she's irritated that i want her to do something
she feels proud
the one she's so good at
she feels confused
what have they had
what do they like
what is she best at

they war across her face
in a way that makes me love her

she strides across the kitchen to a bowl

i think sometimes
choices
they have to make as many as possible
from the youngest age possible
learning to decide
is the most important thing

and then
sometimes i think
for you
for them maybe not
if they are fast to make choices

something else


i really don't know why that is what i'm thinking of

what's happening now

i feel you so strongly

what are you doing to me

i love you sweetheart

have a beautiful day

i'm doing inventory tomorrow

so
i'm going in at 3:30a
i did the pre-work already
[hopefully well]
so
tonight's an early night
and tomorrow is all whack

hopefully it will go even smoother than last year

luck to me

also
i'm driving my mom to that workshop in eagle pass
they re-booked her
which is awesome
except for when it is
and
that she doesn't want to go to marfa again
which was the whole reason i wanted to drive her to begin with

so
i'm looking for a spa
i'm thinking massage and facials and mud baths
unless i can come up with something
better

i love you pumpkin

dreams

the last few nights
i haven't retained my dreams past waking
something
about a grocery store
something

but
last night

i was my sister
and you were your brother
and we were in a room
but we weren't alone

and you're all like:
hey, what's wrong with you

and i'm all like:
see that guy over there, he's my gynocologist
and it's making me uncomfortable to see him here

there was weed smoking going on in the room
[for the record, i would never have a male gyno-- eeeww]
this guy seemed like a used car salesman
and there was some reason
i'd had to find one quick
and he'd been it
but i wasn't comfortable with him
especially not socially

so
i looked at you
and you were different
than you look
you, or your brother, rather
looked like this guy
and when i went looking for pictures
this was the first one i found
which is some bizarre synchronicity
so i include it here

anyway
maybe we were smoking weed
or maybe not
but we did this thing
where we breathed into each other
and

it tasted
like
butter

does that seem right

ok. i got the tower 3 times this morning. what gives.

are you sick?
injured?
is something awful about to happen?

i'm so not ok with the tower.

last night i dreamed i was

justin bieber

well
not exactly
i dreamed that i was all done up like jb
i lived in a house with a buch of really cool women
and for some reason
i had bought the one couple and their kid an apartment
and now i was living with a really bossy woman
and she had me lookin like justin bieber

now
i gotta admit
i had to look up justin bieber
because
i really have no idea about him
he looks like he's 12
and kinda pretty for a guy
but
songs are ok for pop

i found it disconcerting

i dreamed i was travelling by train

maybe that was something you sent to me
i don't know
i have been having, lately
very stressful dreams
things that make me wake up tired
and today
i just wanted to stay in bed, dreaming

i didn't feel
as stiff and sore, waking up, as i have done
and there was some optimism

that may be
premature
because i still have
uncertainties about important things

but
if you're gonna send me stuff
pain reduction
optimism
and
a feeling of comfort
are good

really really good

would it freak you out

i'm thinking about
taking a voice class
it's free
but
it's at the Unitarian universalist church
which is marginally christian

whirlwind
X

i didn't know what i was going to say, until just now

but this
this floats

bad puns become metaphors
with love
on love
whatever
love sells it

how did you know you wouldn't lose me

i wonder about that, sometimes
i twist it back and forth
not
anymore
like worrying the cheek i just bit

more like a dog with one of those ears

[i was almost all girl-y poetical]

untying knots in the fringes

jesus there is no way i can post this now
this is sounding way negative
and it's not

i've been thinking

dream to me sweets

beloved, lie with me

and
this wasn't just any grilled cheese
real bread, dense texture, chew-y crunchy
real cheese, smooth, firm, slick
tomato, warm, grilled
avocado still slightly chill
and the fries

cut from a potato directly into the basket in which they will be submerged into oil

lightly dusted with salt immediately
after withdrawal

and what do we drink with this feast
as i watch the flames dance across your face
do the dance
is that too trope
or do they lick and tease

i want suddenly to lick your cheek
just to taste you in an animal way that isn't even really sexual
or maybe it is
but not like that

you taste
of salt
and
recognition
i know you
like that

that time
that you told me your back hurt
and i didn't give my line
i want to make up for that now
it want to anoint you baby
in something
food grade

i'm not playing around about the massage
i'm interested
in where you hold your tension
what depth will my thumbs sink into your shoulder blades
and these things aren't sexual either
well, they are
but not like that

now
if i find the sweet spot in your twisty bendy fascia

that 
that will be 

hot

and i want to roll around a lot
we might have to spend days and days
to learn
all of each other

or maybe not

that
feels like something we already did somewhere
back before the road, even

i hope everything's good with you

i am having
issues
my head hurts--  bad
and it's gotten progressively worse all day
my neck and shoulders
are all jacked up
and i have cystic acne all along my jawline
wtf

i just keep imagining
we're at big sur
we just walked down to the diner
got french fries and grilled cheese sandwiches
and we're having a picnic
in the cabin
in front of the fire

i love you very much

i went to trader joe's

i like trader joe's
it's cute
and it reminds me of california

because i decided to start a detox
well, that's been in the works
i ordered some organic grains from that farm in iowa
i know they say buy local
but
i met them
and
i need some of that iowan energetic structure
in an you are what you eat kind of way
and
since i met them
i know it's grown with love

oat bran and black quinoa, mostly

anyway, trader joe's
i got almond milk and bananas
to make breakfast drinks with the maca and chia i already have
and i bought supplements

so here's my plan:

6x a day
4 very green
1-2  milk thistle
1-2  kyolic
1-2  pycnogenol

he idea being 1 for the first 4 doses
2 for the last 2

and lemon water, lots of lemon water

and today
i started happy happy blood times
i'm averaging the one i didn't have
with the 2 that i had the month i tried to get on birth control pills

i'm not giving in on this one

a sign from god

i hadn't even asked for one

i don't want to run through my whole day
it might make things make more sense
but
it's not where i want to go right now

the moment came
at sushi choo choo

jw girl at work
got herself onto the news
fashion segment

which is cool and all
but i had no plans to watch it
i don't actually like her
it's a lot of little reasons why

had
anyway
forgotten about it

i missed my first period in 35 years
i had a problem with my bank card i had to go to the bank to address
i just worked more or less overnight the last two days
to totally reset my promotions
which is still filling my head
and i had to do my orders today because i'm off tomorrow

believe me when i say i'd forgotten

sushi choo choo

the waiter seated me across from the tv
not what i would have chosen
but i didn't seat myself

it was set
to that channel
and i saw her

(without sound
the best way)

but
the message
from god
wasn't about (shit, i almost said her name)

it was more like:

chill, i still got your back, timewise
right time right place, all that jazz

imagine

i'm giving you a gift
no
not the gift
i bought you a shirt
to feel good against your skin
it's a silk knit
like gossamer milk
with sleeves you can push up
and
maybe
pockets
i'm not sure how you feel about pockets
and
now
i'm kinda thinking
pants
of a similar fabric
for lounging
and such

last night

i imagined
it was like a vision
we were in our bedroom
it didn't really look the way i picture it
but
the sense of it was
strong

we got into bed
and
i felt the way
a way
the we could fit together
casually

it might be awkward
but it wasn't
you kissed my neck
but from the front
sprawled across me
i could feel your weight against me

i could feel you

your weight

and

i loved it

i've got a wacky work week

so
if you don't hear from me
as much
or at the times you might
expect
don't be sad
don't think that i'm ignoring you

i know you can't answer this

but
how
and
really
i'm trying to make sense of my life

thoughts

i see my mom
once a week, almost every week

previously
i would see my mom
quarterly

i am
not sure
this isn't changing me

we had a reasonably good day i guess
we went to breakfast
we talked about
ongoing
topics

we bought tubes of a face mask i pre-tested
i gave her perfume for mother's day

i think that was good

she used to like shalimar
i didn't know whether or not she still liked it
maybe something new would have been better
but

i think it was good

then she wanted me to help her with vitamins and supplements
but
and i'm leaving a bunch of story out here
it couldn't be more than two

we were at gnc
and i kept trying to be sneaky and get two big vitamin systems
so one bag, many pills
but she just kept saying soy
it contains soy

so i finally found
and it was a puzzle

resveratrol  & fish oil + co q-10

so yeah
heart health
but high antioxidant too
and mobility of joints
eyes, brain, general neurological function
cell energy

but she had been listening to me
because she's like:

wait
i thought you said carnatine was important for heart

yes
but that would push us to three

ok, fine three
i'll take three

plus the packets of emergen-c
that you're already taking

yes, plus that
does that give me a muti vitamin

well, not exactly
it gives you c and b vitamins

i'd really like to see you get some d

i have some d vitamins
for my osteoporosis
i'll take those



i'm worried about her

remembering chairtime

the sign of the cat

it was a one horse town
and i only went there to see you
which
made it a frontier town
cue the spurs

kiss me kiss me kiss me

we circle, matador
flores por los muertos
shirt off your back
celuloid kisses

stella

and
her lovely voice like wine
with the colored lights, and the chipped ice
brother sun, sister moon
hoodie raga

give me a unit of road
and be quick about it
for it's a long night
with miles to go

bitter-sweet, blackness

X

the skin rituals
they are sensual
maybe
even sexual

the feel
the scent

and
i mean
i guess it's mostly
just me

but i feel you,  monterrey mist on my skin

i want it
it gives me pleasure

butterfly kisses, how much we've changed