she didn't WORK on herself 
she absolutely DID 
she got a f*CKing 
MATH degree 
from RICE when it was FREE if you qualified 
& her family was I'm not SURE 
they had a roof over their heads
they had enough 
FOOD 
they made their own clothes 
she was one of the early computer programmers
BEFORE Y2K
they were trying to hire her
she SEEMED interested 
then quickly 
NEVER 
mentioned it again
BUT 
my point is
she's done incredible THINGS 
& she has
ZERO 
happy or inspiring stories, zero