It has been gradual, though.
The more or less completely winging it method has it's drawbacks.  But the more or less setting myself up for success method might not be open ended enough.  This is not to do with you, but rather my planning logistics whatnot.
BUT 
in SCOTLAND 
I found this bed & breakfast 
from the INFO place
& I had this room
it was actually a little larger, but not especially 
FANCY 
or anything 
BUT 
it didn't seem to be near anybody else 
& there was a little w/c
around the corner 
in the hall
& there was a kettle 
& I bought some TEA
& I was going to go out on a 
GHOST WALKING tour
BUT 
the IDEA of walking around in the dark 
trying to find where the tour was
I ended up
STAYING in 
watching dumb american TV
in my VERY not american 
ROOM 
& for some reason 
THAT
was as much FUN 
as all the REAL 
STUFF 
this was LIKE 
I stayed with some distant relatives
they put me up
in their extra 
ROOM
& I got to giggle at the american shows
somebody though
& maybe they 
DID want to see them
I bought
SNACKS too
I don't remember the SNACKS 
I remember the TEA
I had PG tips
& TYPHOO
I went to a 
FISH & chips
on the royal mile
& I didn't know MINCE pie was not mincemeat 
SO
I bought too much food
I may not have eaten snacks there