QUALIFIED 
to give you ANY 
ADVICE 
I can 
ONLY 
tell you what I WISH 
SOMEONE 
had done for me
HELP in ways that ACTUALLY help
NOT ways
that just make you feel good
WOW 
that was enough of a downer
I think I'll stop THERE 
It's SOLID ADVICE tho
& the mental exercise to figure out
what's ACTUALLY helpful 
IF you do it RIGHT 
SHOULD 
PRETTY MUCH 
cover anything else