Friday, July 25, 2025

I just saw this thing in my insta feed
I told it to never show it to me again 
BUT 
I still am a little upset by it

there's some family
the sister is getting married 
& the mother is not inviting her sons' girlfriends

NO RING
NO invite 

these women have been dating the sons
for two and three years respectively 

NOW
granted
I don't have a lot of experience with 
WEDDINGS

BUT 
what the fuck

this is like an advice column

SNARKY in the suburbs
BUT 
she was like
TAKE the GIFT
she thinks you're wasting your time with him

BUT 
these women are on friendly terms with the family 
they aren't saying 
they don't like them
they are saying 
IF
you aren't marriage material 
AND
WHAT OTHER CRITERIA is there
WE don't want you in the 
PICTURES

& THAT 
WHOLE ATTITUDE 
EVERY ANGLE of it
OFFENDED ME 
SO MUCH 

I commented
I don't know WHY this is in my feed
BUT 
I hope I never see you again 
& then TOLD it
NEVER show me this AGAIN 

I WISH
I could have thought of something 
REALLY hurtful to SAY 

it just felt
SO
DE-HUMANIZING

I was actually thinking about 
ADVICE 
as something I might be good at
BUT 
MAYBE I'm TOO 
OUT of TOUCH 
with the
f*CKed UP world